What to Look for in Your Child’s First School: A Parent’s Guide to Choosing the Right Primary

What to Look for in Your Child’s First School: A Parent’s Guide to Choosing the Right Primary

Choosing your child's first school is a major milestone—one that brings a mix of excitement, questions, and, sometimes, a little overwhelm. As your kinder-aged child prepares to spread their wings, finding the right primary school can make a big difference in how confidently they begin their learning journey. But what should you be looking for?

Here’s a parent-friendly guide to help you make a confident, informed choice when it comes to selecting the best local primary school for your child:

1. Warm, Welcoming Environment

One of the most important things to notice on a school visit is how it feels. Are you greeted warmly? Does the school feel calm, organised, and happy? First impressions often matter. Children thrive in nurturing spaces where they feel safe and valued, so look for clues that the school promotes kindness, respect, and belonging.

2. Teacher-Student Relationships

Ask about how teachers build relationships with students. Are class sizes manageable? Do teachers really get to know each child? A positive connection between a teacher and student lays the groundwork for confidence, motivation, and learning. Look for schools that emphasise strong pastoral care and individualised support.

3. Early Years Learning Philosophy

Not all early learning programs are created equal. Some schools lean more towards academic prep while others take a play-based or inquiry-led approach. Ask about how the school balances literacy and numeracy with creativity, social development, and play. Look for evidence of hands-on, engaging learning experiences where young children are encouraged to explore, ask questions, and express themselves.

4. Facilities and Resources

A school’s environment can either enhance or limit your child’s learning experiences. While fancy buildings aren’t everything, spaces should be clean, well-resourced, and purposeful. Ask about outdoor play areas, quiet spaces, libraries, art and music rooms, and digital learning tools. These extras can make a big difference in how your child experiences school life.

5. Prep/Kindergarten Transition Programs

Great schools don’t just open their doors on day one—they support families well before that. Ask whether the school offers “Come & Play” sessions, transition programs, or school-readiness packs. These programs can make the shift from kinder to school far smoother and help children feel comfortable, prepared, and excited.

6. Community Feel

Take a look at the school community—does it feel inclusive and family-oriented? Are there opportunities for parents to be involved through events, volunteering, or committees? Being part of a connected school community can help your whole family feel supported and included.

7. Student Wellbeing and Behaviour Expectations

Wellbeing is more than just a buzzword—it should be central to a school’s philosophy. Ask how the school supports children emotionally, socially, and behaviourally. Are there wellbeing programs in place? How are children taught to resolve conflict or build friendships? A school that focuses on the whole child will set the tone for a lifetime love of learning.

Every child is unique, and the “right” school for your family might look different to someone else’s. Trust your instincts, ask questions, and involve your child in the process when you can. After all, starting school isn’t just a new chapter—it’s the start of their story.

Looking for a school that ticks all these boxes? Come and visit St Columba's Primary School, Elwood on one of our Open Mornings or book a Principal-led tour today. Let’s take the first step together.